A form of Social Irresponsibility

I know of a few cases in my family and in discussions with friends that there happen to be a few men-folks who due to various circumstances like bad friends-circle, lack of competitive spirit, lack of proper guidance have ended up with a rather poor educational background. This has proved to be an inerasable black mark making it very difficult for them to land well paying jobs. As a result, other family members have sometimes come forward to support these less-fortunate kith and kin.

Now coming to the Big question. Are these dependant souls right in demanding a normal life which translates into marrying and having kids. The fundamental question which every thoughtful and responsible person(irrespective of their educational qualifications) should think is whether they are right in taking the step of having a dependant wife and kids who translate financially as those who require money for their support and sustenance. My take is its better for these dependant people to take a conscious decision to remain single or if they so decide for marriage, it should be based on their confidence to sustain the dependant family themselves.

Depending on their kith and kin to support their entire family tantamouts to only Social Irresponsibility although it might sound a bit harsh.

A noble alternative is to help other children to get better educational skills so that they do not end up as dependants or anti-social elements. Nobody knows the importance of education better than these people.